OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

I feel sorry for the lady she knows nothing about this man. first off he was a hitter to all his ex's and he pulled out my hair and i had to wear wigs for 6 months. he is a alcoholic abuser. now my question is this lady knows nothing about him at all. the only way i know her number is because he called me once from the cell phone he gave to her to use. he don't even like her twins. and he owes like 45,000 to me and his ex wife. is it fair to know and not tell when her life could be in danger? even if she don't believe at least she has the option to deside for what she wants? his first wife no one ever seen only heard about. i am friends with wife number 2.....he beat on her too. my beating was not as bad only the one time hair pulling. but, what if she get killed i think i owe it to tell her and let her deside. is this a good idea or not? and give me some advise on how to do it. i know i have to wait tell he is at work cause i never know if he is setting there. thanks

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Even if you tell her, she's going to go back to him, and tell him what you said, then he's going to tell her that you're just jealous and you're trying to get back with him and she's going to ignore it. She's not going to leave him because of anything you say and telling her is only going to make you able to say "I told you so" once it does start and she has to leave. That's how women are. If she loves him, she'll believe anything he says over any other woman. Especially someone he was involved with beforehand.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

No. You'll just look crazy

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

You owe it to her. Might save her life.

She might not want to hear it, but if you are sincere with her, she might get it.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Please go tell her immediately

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

You need to keep your meddling nose out of other peoples affairs!

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Being that he is an abuser...You should tell her....to save her life if nothing else...

She may not believe you...but at least you gave her fair warning...

To those that say MYOB...How would you feel if you had a loved one that was killed by a man that was an abuser....and an ex was willing to tell your loved one....but was told to mind her own business...East to say to MYOB when it doesn't affect you personally....

I think your motives for telling her on sincere....She has 2 children.....Would be a terrible thing for them to lose their mother....because someone wasn't willing to share important information about the man she was with.....Like I said...she may not believe you....but you will not have to live with any guilt for not letting her know....if something terrible should happen to her....

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Yes I guess so.She should know whats lays ahead.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

If you're going to say something, you AND the ex-wife should do it so that she'll believe you. But realize that she probably won't, and will have to figure it out on her own. If I were you, I'd also be afraid of the repercussions from him, as she will probably tell him that she spoke to you.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Stay out of it! You need to just mind your own business here. I don't mean to sound rude, but you definately do not need to get involved. Why is he still calling you anyways?

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

my questions are ...how many wives did he have...and why isnt he in jail...or why didnt you pull his hair out..I would tell just to give her a heads up, but not to be coniving...if he finds out...he might try to beat on you again

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

I would only do it IF:

1) you could show her PROOF such as a police report and police photos

2) you and your family would be safe from any retaliation he might want to carry out. I'm imagining he'll be very upset when he hears what you told her.

3) if you can relay the message to her in a loving, gentle tone....not in a "i'm just trying to get back at him" tone. she won't believe you if it just looks like you're still angry at him.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Are you sure you're doing it to help her or just to gouge him a little? Either way is okay, but you really need to move on and get over him. If you're asking this, you're not over him.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

stay out of it

you got away...stay away, keep out of it

she will not believe you and you owe her nothing, anyway

it would not be YOUR fault if he killed her, he is a repeat offender and apparantly has a good line he feeds women or he would not have so many exes.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Sounds like you still want to be involved one way or another. Stick your nose out of his business remember your not together anymore, I'm sure the lady is grown and can make or own decisions, when he beat you how many times did you press charges?

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

You don't have to say a word,she will find out and what comes around goes around.What he done to you and others it will happen to someone else.Let it go for the better.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

its a hard 1 as she may think you are saying it because you are jealous and she may tell him what you have said and it could back fire on you and he may attack you for telling her

Think very carefully before you act.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Yes tell her because you fear for her safety. If it's to cause drama, then don't do it. Tell her, and leave it alone.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

mind ya bizniz she'll find out soon enuff

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

No stay out of it and mind your own business. She would never believe you anyway, you sound like a bitter,jealous ex. People do sometimes change and sometimes who they are with changes them.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

if u have police reports and real prof that he did all that then give it 2 her if not stay out of it you will just make her think you want him back

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

MYOB

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Stay out of it your only concern should be for you and your children. She will see the writing on the wall soon enough.

You do not need more drama in your life and neither does your children.

Move on he will be his own downfall.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Don't say anything. She'll eventually find out on her own and she needs to all by herself.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Say something but BE CAREFUL, if you have proof and talk to wife #2 and if you have proof as far as physical evidence or something saying that you filed charges against him and he was guilty then it would be more believable. If you talk to her have her meet you somewhere DON'T go to the house where they live or he could come back from work early or something and it could get ugly. Talk to an officer what you are wanting to do and see what he or she has to say make sure that someone knows where you are going and what time you are going so that if for some reason something happens someone knows where you were at.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

A person who was abusive with you does not necessarily mean will be abusive to her. You should never tell her in my opinion. Because this will change her perspective they way she looks at him now. By doing this you could bring down the possiblity of a new successful or revised relationship. We are all grownup and have brains to recognize people and can measure his stupidity. Let her handle herself, if she was kid, then I would definitely inform her. If you are very good and really care for her and have time to do so then be her friend and without telling her that you know her husband you find out how much she is going through using indirect talk and an independent reference. Using independent incident similar to her might help her to open up with you and share her thoughts and then you could suggest her what could be better alternatives.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

She won't believe you and you could piss him off.

I would stay out of it.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

Yes...by all means tell her.

The man I am with now is a manipulative, bitter, hateful, abusive, cheating SOB....and first chance I get, I'm going to tell his GF exactly what she's in for.

Isn't it nice how they show their best side until they have you hooked....then the asshole within comes out???

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

although you feel like telling this women the truth about this guy, your best bet is to leave things alone and let her find out on her own because the first thing she is going to say is that you don't know what your talking about and remain in complete denial until something happens to her first hand, unfortunately this is how reality works for some women, they have to figure things out on there own and you will just cause undo problems for yourself if you interfere.

OK should i tell the kids dad girlfriend what kind of man she is with?

If the other wifes, would have told you how mean he is, would you have believed them. Leave it alone. Some things are best left unsaid.