Okay i am 27 yrs old and my hubby is 35 we have been married for a over 6 yrs.My husband had an affair with his secretary the second year of our marriage i was very angry. The relationship with my hubby went pretty cold after the affair.A little while later while i was getting my car fixed i ran into an ex.bf from highschool we got to talking turns out he was the owner of the shop.We talked became friends and an affair happened.I ened it went to therapy with my hubby found out i was pregnant.I never really questioned my childrens paternity because the last time i had sex during the affair was the last day of my cycle. But now i am worried my hubby and i have dark brown hair/eyes because we are i am spanish he is italian but my daughter has dirrty blond or blond hair/hazel eyes.Could this just be guilt?
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
do one ! even if it is for the peace of mind do it!! and look at your baby pictures see if your hair was lighter when you were younger could just be not done tinting all the way... but yeah i would get one!
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
If you really want to find out now, you would need to do a paternity test. When they are older, it may become more obvious just by looking at them.
Why do you want to find out? If they happen to be not your husband's, are you planning to tell him? Would you tell the other guy?
I have a few questions about your relationships. Can you write me an email (krsh28@yahoo.com) so we can discuss that a bit?
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
While I realize the guilt and anger that is built up on both sides of an affair (I've been on both sides) the biggest question you need to ask yourself is will it change anything between you and your husband or in your family? If the answer is no, then don't worry about it. The only reason for a paternity test is to prove who the biological parent is. But biology only goes so far. If he is their dad (and dad is very different from father) then why put him and the children through that? If it doesn't matter to him, and you two are working things out, then don't bother. However, if the answer is yes, you need to discover why and re-evaluate where your relationship is going and where you want it to go.
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
Get the test.
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
It is possible for kids who have both dark hair/eyes parents to have light hair, and eyes. My son hase blonde hair blue eyes, and both, me, and the father have dark hair, etc.. As far as the paternity thing. It all depends on how far apart you were sleeping with your husband, and the other guy.. which guy did you sleep with last before you found out you were pregnant, and if you were sleeping with both of them at the same time too much to remember how far apart it was between sleeping with both guys.. I would think to figure out what days you had sex with both guys out of that whole month right before you found out you were pregnant, and which ever one is closest to the date you were told that you concieved is most likely the one who got you pregnant. If you dont remember the date you concieved try to remember the date of your last period before you got pregnant, and go to http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/923526... , it will calculate the day of conception, and an etimate of when the baby was due.. I would type in the babys birthdate where it says the baby is due, and see what it gives you as the conception date. It dont have to be the right year, just make sure the month, and the day the babys were born is correct for you to get the results. Hope that helped.. and as far as getting the paternity thing done, if things are good between your husband and yourself now, and he dont suspect the kids might not be his, I wouldnt bring it up unless you really feel like its best if you do. Why mess up things if they are finally good between the both of you.
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
My husband and I have 2 boys. One is light complected with freckles and red hair. The other one is medium complected with light brown hair. It could be genetics but for peace of mind you should probably do one.
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
Ew. Call maury.
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
It depends on what you hope to get out of the paternity test. Who is the answer going to help, you or your family? The test will tell you who donated the genes but you know who the dad is and do you want to risk taking that away?
Please help do my kids need a paternity test??
yes get the test down to know for sure.
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